Today I subbed in for another chaplain at our inpatient facility. With ten rooms filled I discovered that the patients that day were Pentecostal, Lutheran, Baptist, Catholic, Wesleyan, Presbyterian, "sorta Buddist" and Atheist. I thought about Paul's goal of being all things to all people as I made the rounds. (it was that or don my imaginary super woman cape.)
I remember reading that someone asked Elizabeth Kubler Ross "What happens if someone doesn't believe (the way I do)?" She answered "They will just be surprised at the transition. We all come from one God, we all return to one God. There is no discrimination after death."
I was in a Bible study group last fall. One member was a KJV toting Bible scholar. He knew the text and loved to debate. One week a guest showed up and offered a heavily liberal opinion. I waited for Mr. Scholar to jump all over it. Instead he thoughtfully said "that's a possibility."
That's a possibility. As the wise Robin might say "Possibilities invite you to keep being curious." I think about that as I listen to patients and families share common ground or quirky brands of faith that sustain them on their journeys. I think about it when I am tempted to roll my eyes and when I am moved to tears.
For most of my life I have worried that walking into those ten rooms I wouldn't know the right thing to say. Today, my lack of The Perfect Answer is key to my chaplaining. The lid is off the box people! Today I got to enjoy listening, learning and being included in some of those possibilities.
ahhh, finally a new blog. Yes, Robin is wise, but for me, I'm getting to see how a new supervisor with a very different approach and style brings out focus on different things that we didn't give much attention to last year.
ReplyDeleteI like your comments about possibility. I read a book recently that said in it, "Statements lead to static, but questions lead to conversation and possibilities." Yarr, N
I want to be more of a question and less of a statement person! M6
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